A lady has sparked reactions online after sharing her frustration over what she described as the difficulty of maintaining friendships with men without sexual expectations.
In a viral video, the woman expressed sadness, claiming that some men end friendships after she declines their sexual advances.
She said she had tried to maintain a genuine friendship with a man she met, but the relationship changed after she refused to have sex with him.
According to her, she wanted them to remain friends without intimacy, but she felt disappointed when the friendship appeared to depend on sexual involvement.
“I just really feel bad right now. Like, I just feel bad. I just feel sad, yes. Because there is this person I met and we are just cool, you know. I tried everything possible not to make the guy angry.”
She added that she wanted them to enjoy each other’s company as friends, even without having a sexual relationship.
“Let’s be happy. Let’s be friends, even without the sex. The moment you refuse to sleep with them, the moment you refuse to have sex with them, that’s the end of that friendship.”
The lady claimed that some men cut communication completely when their expectations are not met.
“Like, they will tell you not to speak with me. They will block you. Like, I encounter this thing a lot and it hurts me that I cannot even have a friendship that I can stay without fucking the person.”
She questioned why some men struggle to maintain platonic friendships with women and said the situation has affected her emotionally.
“Why a man like this? I know you will come for me to say, why did you get your body done? Why did you do this or that? But can’t we just, can’t I just have a friendship without sex?”
The woman concluded by asking whether her appearance should mean every friendship must lead to intimacy.
“Must I fuck everybody? Do I even have the body to fuck every damn person? It really hurts me, man. It hurts me.”
Watch the video here…
“I feel bad right now. The moment you refuse to sl££p with men, they’ll block you. I encounter this a lot and it hurts me. Why is it so hard to make friends with men?” – Lady laments pic.twitter.com/K91CWi0Cun
— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) August 4, 2026