How my hubby deserted me, denied me entry to our kids over his mom’s dream – Mom of 5


A 35-year-old lady, Mrs. Ozormena Mbam, a resident of Egugwu Agbaja Unuhu in Abakaliki Native Authorities Space of Ebonyi State, has cried out for assist after her husband deserted her and denied her entry to their 5 kids.

Mrs. Mbam, a petty dealer, lamented that she has been rendered homeless by her husband over a dream that his mom claimed to have had. In response to her, her mother-in-law claimed she noticed Mrs. Mbam killing her husband, Mr. Mbam, within the dream.

Following the dream, Mr. Mbam reportedly reduce ties together with his spouse, dispossessed her of her belongings, and refused to accommodate her in his new home.

Pained and devastated, Mrs. Mbam has known as on the Ebonyi State Authorities, the Workplace of the Governor’s Spouse, and the Abakaliki LGA for  Chairman of the Nigeria Bar Affiliation, the Affiliation of Girls Attorneys, human rights {groups}, and all folks of goodwill are being known as upon to assist Mrs. Mbam get well her house, which is presently in shambles, and reunite along with her 5 kids.

Narrating her plight in Abakaliki, the state capital, Mrs. Mbam, who was married each historically and within the church in 2009, stated she by no means had any misunderstanding along with her husband or her mother-in-law till ten years into the wedding in 2019. She defined that her mother-in-law had a dream through which Mrs. Mbam was accused of killing her husband, her solely baby. Since then, her mother-in-law drastically modified her perspective in direction of her, regardless of all efforts to revive love, peace, and unity within the household.

Mrs. Mbam stated the hostility from her mother-in-law continued with out her understanding the explanation till a mediation assembly in 2021, when leaders of their church girls’s group intervened. Nonetheless, the mother-in-law rejected all pleas and makes an attempt by the households, church, and buddies to revive peace, and the state of affairs continues up to now.

In response to her, “The dream has triggered my husband to disclaim me intimacy, withhold my kids, transfer into our new home with an odd lady, beat me on the slightest provocation, render me homeless by eradicating the roof, doorways, and home windows of my residence in my absence, and take away most of my family and private belongings. My kids now go to highschool from his mom’s home towards my needs, regardless that I’m alive, wholesome, and nonetheless younger. The oldest of them is 15, and the youngest is simply 5. They’re usually unkempt as a result of they lack correct care there.

“The most recent beating I obtained was as a result of I missed my kids. I went to his mom’s home and introduced them to have a good time Christmas with me. He needs me to be with no husband, with no roof over my head, and with out my kids, all due to his mom’s dream.

“Regrettably, whereas eradicating the roof of our outdated residence in my absence, he seized most of my valuables and enterprise capital. I promote perishable greens like tomatoes, peppers, and onions at Abakaliki Worldwide Market. However now, my husband and his mom have compelled me again to sq. one in life, with none fault of mine. All folks of goodwill ought to please come to my assist; the water is as much as my neck!” Mrs. Mbam lamented.

She added, “I’ve been compelled to return to my father’s home, the place a minimum of I’ve a roof over my head and meals. I’m dropping my 17-year marriage and my 5 kids simply due to a dream I do know nothing about.”

In the meantime, efforts to succeed in her husband, Mr. Mbam Chituru, for feedback on the time of this report had been unsuccessful.